Dilemma is a common thing in everyone’s life, starting from the most confident people to the ones that are not confident at all. But life doesn’t stop there, because we end up taking a decision one way or another. Sometimes those decisions are based on how we feel and at times on what we should be doing irrespective of our feelings. Always agreeing to what your heart wants may not be right most of the time because the world doesn’t revolve on emotions rather it is about how realistic you are and how well you put up an act to defend your position. Deep down inside we try to be happy and believe in our values, yes, it is not easy but come on we got one life so why not make the most out of it? And people’s opinion about how you should be living your life is mostly unimportant, because it’s your life! Learn to take your own decisions and back them up.
Speak up, let your opinion be known. People will judge you anyway, because that’s the easy part. We humans tend to do what feels easy and try avoiding tough situations. But you are your best judge. If you continue thinking about how people will feel, then you will have a hard time being happy. Fall and stand up don’t just wait for someone to pick you up because there won’t always be one. But if you can’t do that then stay put because at times you are that miserable human deserving to be in that position to begin with.
Over time throughout our life we will meet people of different types, some will push us to do better, some will try taking us down with them and some will make us feel happy about ourselves. Now who do you keep because let’s face it, you can’t keep everyone of them. Find a balance because each are important on the basis of their own roles. Keep people that are real no matter what type they belong to. Because real people are hard to find and even harder to keep. Most people don’t actually say what they feel and can fake it big time. Such a wonderful attribute. You can and will fail at times while trying to figure that kind of people. You can never be so good as to judge people’s decision because you don’t live their life and everyone has a story of their own.
Being someone who always had a hard time expressing feelings in a convenient way, I don’t really know whether you have got what I have been blabbering about till now :p. It is important to talk meaningful no matter how less you are speaking, say something that makes sense otherwise you are just another wannabe trying to be cool and the world has plenty of them already. Be different, that doesn’t mean doing something stupid, it rather means doing things your way, the way you want to get things done and improve on it. Self-improvement is a continuous process and a time consuming one as well. Take your time, breathe, think and perceive things the rest will take it’s course accordingly.
Choices define who we are. Situation can be different and on them depends the decision. Same situation, different people, different side and you are taking a decision you never thought you would take. That’s how the world goes. Nothing is certain, yet we humans behave in a manner believing situation won’t change, making plans for the next few years, even though it is very possible we might die in the very next second.
Confidence, something many people fail to realize the importance of. The right amount, neither over nor under, can help you achieve anything and everything. Things you never dared do before will seem easy to you just because the faith is there, the belief that it is possible. That takes you a long way my friend, more than you can imagine.
This is me trying to write something meaningful in an unorthodox way, well you can say that. The reason for writing this is because I wanted to. Yeah opinions do matter, but listen to your heart at times, live truly, the way you are meant to.
Hopefully there will be a next time, till then Adios.
Speak up, let your opinion be known. People will judge you anyway, because that’s the easy part. We humans tend to do what feels easy and try avoiding tough situations. But you are your best judge. If you continue thinking about how people will feel, then you will have a hard time being happy. Fall and stand up don’t just wait for someone to pick you up because there won’t always be one. But if you can’t do that then stay put because at times you are that miserable human deserving to be in that position to begin with.
Over time throughout our life we will meet people of different types, some will push us to do better, some will try taking us down with them and some will make us feel happy about ourselves. Now who do you keep because let’s face it, you can’t keep everyone of them. Find a balance because each are important on the basis of their own roles. Keep people that are real no matter what type they belong to. Because real people are hard to find and even harder to keep. Most people don’t actually say what they feel and can fake it big time. Such a wonderful attribute. You can and will fail at times while trying to figure that kind of people. You can never be so good as to judge people’s decision because you don’t live their life and everyone has a story of their own.
Being someone who always had a hard time expressing feelings in a convenient way, I don’t really know whether you have got what I have been blabbering about till now :p. It is important to talk meaningful no matter how less you are speaking, say something that makes sense otherwise you are just another wannabe trying to be cool and the world has plenty of them already. Be different, that doesn’t mean doing something stupid, it rather means doing things your way, the way you want to get things done and improve on it. Self-improvement is a continuous process and a time consuming one as well. Take your time, breathe, think and perceive things the rest will take it’s course accordingly.
Choices define who we are. Situation can be different and on them depends the decision. Same situation, different people, different side and you are taking a decision you never thought you would take. That’s how the world goes. Nothing is certain, yet we humans behave in a manner believing situation won’t change, making plans for the next few years, even though it is very possible we might die in the very next second.
Confidence, something many people fail to realize the importance of. The right amount, neither over nor under, can help you achieve anything and everything. Things you never dared do before will seem easy to you just because the faith is there, the belief that it is possible. That takes you a long way my friend, more than you can imagine.
This is me trying to write something meaningful in an unorthodox way, well you can say that. The reason for writing this is because I wanted to. Yeah opinions do matter, but listen to your heart at times, live truly, the way you are meant to.
Hopefully there will be a next time, till then Adios.
